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Ok everyone is crying about Bill Belichamp cheating by useing cameras. Do you think he is a bad person for doing? I don't ,you ask why because look at Nascar how often do the drivers get caught cheating? I say its all in the game of sport if you can cheat and get away with good for you but once you get caught you should have to face up and pay what you have coming to you and don't cry about it you knew what you were doing was wrong...


Cheating will always be in every sport deal with it was not the first time and will not be the last time!!!WHO agrees PLEASE read!!!?
Hey Fred, guess the G. is for '; Got caught cheating ';. Stay cool and keep up the questions!WHO agrees PLEASE read!!!?
Just because there will always be cheating doesn't mean that the regulatory bodies shouldn't continue to monitor / punish it.
i agree cheating will always be apart of life and sports i think cheaters when caugh should be dealt with like baseball dealt with Pete Rose when he gambled yeah you guessed it no hall of fame i dont think championships should be taken or have asteriks if you didnt catch them at that time we as fans will always know i dont think that we should take things they have already earned/ gotten away with but they should be barred from the hall of fame and other things like that
Well in Nascar it's usually a violation of a ';grey area'; in the rule book and not and and out cheating situation.





But I think I'm with most when I ask about Belicheck.....';That is cheating?'; They filmed the other team which is facing them right across the field. They look right at them the whole game, but recording what they see is cheating? I think that is a weak way to call someone a cheater.





The last I saw they beat the living crap out of a damn good team in the Chargers, so I think the cheating thing didn't do much to help them. It may make them more dangerous now!!





That being said, I wish the Dolphins would cheat some more if it would make them better.
You are right, cheating is a fact of life in the sports world. He should own up to it, which he did.
I agree that cheating will always be part of any sport and I could really care less who does it, however I think just because a lot people cheat, that doesn't mean it is okay to cheat.





Look at the Pats case, I think bill made a huge mistake, and I still don't understand why. NE appears to have a good team with many advantages over most of NFL teams and I am really having hard team seeing what Bill was worried about.





He was selfish, he took a great risk in cheating. Getting caught and paying the fine is just the easy part, tarnishing NE legacy is much bigger. Ten years from now, whenever someone mentions NE and their run, you will hear the same question, did they cheat during every season. Which will be really unfair to the players, that why it is never okay to cheat.





I read over what you said again, I see what you are saying, I guess many people are over reacting to this. I don't care that he cheated because I am not a NE fan but I think it was dumb on his part he got so much at risk.


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i could give a ****, i just dig redd foxx so i had to answer
I just think he's a bad person.


BTW, I hear alot of people do crack and don't get caught, too. Is that why you fired up before this question? JK - it's a fair question and I'd defend my coach the same way. HOWEVER... my coach happens to be Dungy. Do you think you'd be singing the same tune if it was Dungy that got caught?
I'm all for gaining an advantage over your opponent. I wouldn't resort to cheating though. Hiring a person to film on your opponents sideline to feed your QB during game time what the defense is planning? Isn't that the reason you watch film of games of your up coming opponent? It was a tasteless decision of Belicheats part and let us not forget Tom Brady who took those calls in and changed the play at the last minute because of the defensive scheme.





P.S. ';I got me some bud nippers so I can nip me some buds.';





One of the greatest line in all of TV comedy if you ask me.





RIP Red Fox





What happens when the Patriots play the Broncos who have a defensive stat against the passing game of 97%? Do you think that Maroney can save them then?
Sure. Why dont we allow defensive backs to knock down the recievers instead of playing the ball? Why's there such a stupid rule of ';pass interference'; if the DB's job IS to interfere with the pass?! (if you don't know the answer than I give up on you.) Simply put: rules are rules, and they're there so there's fair play on both sides of the ball. If you get caught, there are consequenses.
I think he is a bad person, like Professor Moriarty, Sherlock Holmes antithesis. But also, you look like Red Fox from Sanford and son, and that's all that matters. Forget the cheater, Red Fox is the greatest and I miss him a lot.
he was cheating and that is wrong. it is a sad comment on your morals to think that it's okay if you get away with it. also what does it say for anyone who tries to say that their three Superbowl wins really mean anything. he knows how good they are as a team and the way he thought they could win was to cheat. sad
';will not be the last time'; said like a true Pats fan!


The problem I see with it is when you say everyone does it, where is the proof on that? You keep hearing Pats fan say that but there is no evidence of the other teams using technology to cheat their way to a win. They had actual proof of the Pats doing it. BTW, when ';Belichamp'; or Belicheater was with the Browns where are all their trophies? Did he not learn the cheating part til later when he realized he was nearing last chance as a Head Coach??

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I had a dream about my ex boyfriend what does that mean :/?

long story short i feel for a guy who liked me to and he all ways was firlting with me then he broke up with me cuz i found out he was cheating he moved away but anyways in my dream here is how it went:





i was writing something in my locker and he goes are you leaving your mark? and i go whats it to you and he goes cuz ill leave it 2. then he ask me if ellen was coming back ';btw thats his ex 2'; i said yea he goes oh crap u never saw me i go ok and then he push me up to my locker like old times and says check you later and smiles then as he is walking away he is still looking at me.





now i dont know if this is one of them dreams were the perosn is just there or if it happens to mean anything? even tho the jerk did wrong by cheating i kinda of miss him i mean he got me you know he could say something that would make me laugh even if other ppls thought it was lame . and he was just.. so differnt from every other guy. and still when i think about him i still smile???


help.I had a dream about my ex boyfriend what does that mean :/?
it means you had a dream about your ex boyfriend.I had a dream about my ex boyfriend what does that mean :/?
it means u still have feelings for him
you still have some old feelings for him....
You were thinking about him. Dreams usually have deeper meanings. If he cheated on you and you get back together, he may think that it is Ok to do it again.
Well, I suspect that you dreamed of him because you are not quite over him.





What your dream does not mean is that you should go back to him or call him up or anything like that. Everybody makes relationship mistakes, and everybody gets caught up in people who aren't right for them. But I hope that you will respect yourself and not go back to the creep. Although it's advice that is hard to adhere to, time will make you feel better and waiting out your painful feelings is the best thing to do.





Good luck. There is a guy out there for you-- you will care for him and he will treat you right!
it's proly just a dream that means you really like him still. it's a dream telling you the way he acted was wrong, %26amp;%26amp; he's proly dreamin that too. but anywho ask him wat he thinks about the dream %26amp;%26amp; maybe even though it's wrong everybody deserves another chance
you are in love, try to get him back
? Probably means you still have a thing for him. maybe you should look it up in a dream book
You were probably thinking about him before you went to sleep.
It means you had a dream about your ex-boyfriend. It also means you are putting WAY too much thought and significance into this guy. Your looking to verify what you want ...and grabbing at straws to do it. Sorry

How to know if your husband is cheating on you?

I have instincts even before that he is cheating on me but never caught him in the act. Help me how to caught him. He's really good in making lies and excuses. I feel really dumb and stupid that he always gets away with it easily. I really want to call it quits but I dont know if Im doing the right thing.How to know if your husband is cheating on you?
I am in the SAMMMMMME BOAT!!!! My husband could be bangin someone and like the song ';saw me on the sofa...it wasn't me';





Look, I think the BEST way is to get HARDCORE proof. Bust his lies out into the open. Thats the ONLY way or else you will end up like me KNOWING something is wrong and literally going INSANE because he justifies and lies!!! Its not healthy! Get your hardcore proof for your sanity and move the ';F'; on. We don't need that stress!How to know if your husband is cheating on you?
If you really feel in your gut that he is, and you cannot afford a PI, do it yourself. Rent a car, buy a wig and follow him. But if you are simply a jealous type of person you are goiing to wind up pushing him away. You can call that show Cheaters too.
You really can't accuse or confront him unless you have valid proof...


I wouldn't worry about it too much or overanalyze anything considering you lack evidence.





And if you don't trust him then there's a problem in communication or just your overall relationship.
When you do find out.


Have yourself check for VDs





To me.


Cheating is a deal breaker. We would be done.


No second chances. The papers will be arriving soon.
how can you even be sure of anything you are even saying, i think you are being paranoid. you say he lies but have never catch him in a lie ??????

Why do women steal men away?? Why da man dat i love?? How can i stop him cheating on me???

It all started with his trip to china in april, i had been with him for 5 years at then.


I felt things and dreamt about it whn he was away, n when i used to call him then, he used to either hang up in 30 sec or just tell me not to bug him as he was ina meeting..


when he came back, i felt a tremendous change and coldness in his touch.. later i found out from his laptop tht he had been sleeping with an escort (dat's da new word for w'ores) for 12 days!!


Now we call ourselves as friends, and were doing fine lately, but he still dissapears from his contact with me when he's in china...it's been 6 days since he is there. I knw dat chinese escort's number and if i wasnt working, i would just hv gone there, but today i feel doing all these is getting against my dignity...yet i can't keep my mind away, can't focus on work, dont talk much at home...i dont knw, it's killing..


Why does it happen? i had given him everything! Pls dont cm up with an answer ';Move On'; or ';Hv Guts';..HELP ME SIS.Why do women steal men away?? Why da man dat i love?? How can i stop him cheating on me???
Why are you blaming the escort? Your boyfriend chose to cheat on you. It was his choice. You should be blaming him. So, don't call the escort, talk to him.


I hate to tell you this, but you do need to move on. For one, think of your physical health. If he is having unprotected sex, you could contract an STD or HIV. Is he worth your life?


Right now, it does not appear that he has any remorse for what he has done. He also does not seem to want to change this behavior and will continue to hurt you over and over again. I know it is difficult to consider since you have been together for so long, but you need to look at your priorities and his. Do you think you need to be treated like this?Why do women steal men away?? Why da man dat i love?? How can i stop him cheating on me???
Sometimes lust is too powerful to ignore even though the person still loves youo and that's why cheating happens..





But almost 99% of the time, a person cheats because they don't love and respect the person they are with. If he loved you, he wouldn't have done it. There's no two ways about it. He could have kept his desire in check if he really wanted to.





You can't stop him from cheating, and you don't deserve to have someone you give your heart to and get treated like that in return.
Are you all married? If not, think about it - do you want to live this way the rest of your life? He doesn't have any respect for you if he's cheating on you. He's lying to you about this so does he have any integrity?





If you're married - you need marriage counseling.





If you're truly determined to stay with this person, then you're going to have to come to a point where you accept that he is not faithful and all of the feelings that go with that. It's rare that a person changes their colors.
Sadly women can't steal men away from another woman. Men go of their own accord, cause if there was real love and respect cheating on you never would've even been considered. You have to realize that kind of relationship is toxic and it's already starting to effect you, you have to ask yourself is this kind of relationship worth your dying mentally and maybe even physically? Remember a bad man is not worth crying over, a good one is but if he's good he'll never make you cry.
These women are not stealing him! They are providing a service for money, and neither know nor care if he is partnered or not. I don't think its fair to say hes 'cheating' on you either, if he is so determindly going after other women I don't think he considers himself to be in a real relationship, you're just an additional extra in his life.
women steal men away because its them practicing sexual immorality. men letthem do it..cause they're practicing the same thing..just remember when something happpens to you its not your fault always...and your life is too short to continue in sadness..just move on.
down deep past the hurt you know all the answers sis. BUT----it doesn't mean you weren't good to him or good for him.





it happens because life is not fair, the heart and the head don't always agree, because people want different things...


he's moved on and left you behind. it hurts. five years is a long time.





but if you do a couple of things, you'll be fine eventually. i call them the three P's. Pity/Prepare/Present





Pity: throw yourself a pity party and allow yourself to cry, scream, curse the unfairness.





Prepare: pick up your dignity when the party is over, tuck your heart somewhere safe and hidden and focus on you. on things that make you happy.





Present: when you feel strong enough, take another chance.





if it doesn't work out, go back to number one and repeat as often as necessary. life rewards those who are truly alive, who are happy, who are willing to take a chance.





he may never know what he gave up, but you'll be able to use what you learned from being with him to make your life better in the future. and that sis, is why women live longer than men...:)

How can i forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me over a year ago?

Just 2 weeks after my boyfriend and i started dating, i went away for a week for christmas. During that time he cheated on me, with two girls. It has been over a year now and i still feel like I cant trust him at parties without me. Am I doing the right thing by going with him, or do i just need to forget about it? I know that he would never do that to me now as we plan on getting married, but i just need some advice. thanksHow can i forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me over a year ago?
OK... listen up. Do not forget nor forgive him. Come ON!!! Don't have low self esteem, I'm trying to be NICE!!! U gota tell him it's over. And if you dont, your gona be in hell for a long, long time. Trust me, I know. My feyonce raped my best friend.How can i forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me over a year ago?
Marriage? Congratulations. Anyways, marriage if a very big deal. You should make him pay for everything just in case he does cheat on you.
It's been a year and you haven't let it go .... You're never going to let go of the betrayal . Do yourself a favor and move on.


BTW , just because you're engaged doesn't mean he'll never cheat again .
BOOM!dump his punk ***
by breaking up with him. that's the only way to let go of the poison you feel inside.
he cheated on you twice and your marrying this dude?? you are some piece of work.
Forgive!? wow ........ I suppose you will have to learn things the hard way.





'; I know that he would never do that to me now as we plan on getting married ';





I knew a BEAUTIFUL decent woman who had a very hard time because her husband cheated on her and she had a divorve. They also had 2 twin daughters......... lesson: make sure you do life-changing decisions such as marriage and kids with the right person period
You are lying to yourself. You don't ';know'; if he wouldn't do that to you now and you aren't over the past because presently, there is no trust. You have not genuinely forgiven him and you want to carry this into a marriage?! That leads to resentment and that leads to divorce. Move on.
You have to think using your brain, not heart. Are you really really sure about planning your future with him? Because you can't married to someone whom you don't trust. This can't-trust-him thing will haunt you down forever. And i think it's bad for the both of you.





Well, good luck!
did he explain the reason for the two girls? give him a chance to apology
ok,,,, let me sell you some swamp land... damnnnnnnnnnnnnn What does it take nowadays , for a girl to know she's with a piece of crap?? What all does he have to do, until you use your brain and say, ';hell with that, I am better than that';? Kick his *** over the curb... I have to to give it to him, he's playing you girl, and you're letting him... He WILL do it to you, married or not

How should I interpret my boyfriends behavior towards other women?

My boyfriend is very fun loving out going person. This tends to stir up some jealousy when he is (I think) too outgoing or overly engaged in a conversation with another woman. Also, if an attractive or sometimes not even very attractive woman walks by or is in our presence he will blatantly stare her down or try to make eye contact. Also, I've noticed that he never introduces me as his girlfriend. He gets off the hook by just saying my name. ';This is Paula'; for example, and the girl usually stairs at me like ';Ooookay, some random chick named Paula鈥?quot; Other than these issues, he and I are best friends! We have a wonderful close-knit relationship and I sincerely do trust him not to cheat on me, but these issues cause me to feel very insecure about myself and what he might be doing when I'm not around. Especially since I am now pregnant with his child and starting to lose my figure. I have expressed to him my feelings and sometimes hurt when he does this. His response is that he is a nice out going person and treats both men and woman the same. I've never seen him stare a man down that way or try to be witty in just the presence of a man but ok! I also, think there is an obvious difference between a casual conversation between two people and flirting. Body language, intense eye contact, leaning in towards one another etc... I think if he were to walk into a room and spot me talking to another man like this giggling away, then introduce him just by his name minus the status, he would be upset or hurt and understand what this feels like.





Side point: Not to toot my own horn but I am a lovely attractive young lady, 24 years old and extremely loving and loyal to him. I'm very attracted to him but he is getting up in age (42 years old) losing some hair which doesn't bother me at all but I would think he would realize how lucky he is to have me in his life. (So toot!) He is a very attractive older man but the young girls that he stares at are not exactly staring back if you get my drift. What to do???How should I interpret my boyfriends behavior towards other women?
Talk to him about it and work it out. If it bothers you, let him know!How should I interpret my boyfriends behavior towards other women?
Get rid of him. Hes only interested in young women and you are just one of the young women. He is a pathetic old man who doesnt want to be the age that he is. Try flirting with young men in front of him if you like, but personally I would ditch the loser.
I don't know that I'd be so dismissive of his ability to attract younger women. He managed to reel you in somehow, didn't he?





That said, if you honestly don't think the flirting's going to go anywhere, then maybe you're best off just plastering a huge smile on your face when he introduces you and saying ';Hi, I'm X's girlfriend. Nice to meet you.'; Or heck, go ahead and see how he reacts if you try it. Maybe he'll recognize how it feels, or maybe he truly won't care.
if a guy introduce you by name and not title your just a play thing to him . he is being very disrespectful and YOU need to speak up when he introduce you by name he knows your insecure at times and won't step up to him . your having his kid stop with the shy b.s. don't let him introduce you by name and you need to embarrass his butt so he stops doing it. don't ask him to stop you stop the b.s for him
Look, I really hate to say this but I dated someone your age and I'm your bf's age. We had nothing to say to each other after awhile and I was bored with someone that young. He could never give me what I wanted in a relationship because of that.


I don't think your guy is serious about you, pregnant or not. Maybe you are very pretty but he wants a more in-depth conversation with someone. I'm not saying you are dumb but looks are not everything. I'm saying your life experience and his (because of age) do not match up. That's why relationships with age differences that much don't usually work out. It has nothing to do with sex or how pretty someone else is. It's just nicer to have someone who you can relate to.


People my age and your bf's age tend to talk to people a lot because we have enough confidence in life that we don't usually worry what the bf or gf think. He may not care how much you talk to anyone else or how you introduce him. He may introduce you as ';Paula'; because he doesn't think of you as his girlfriend in ';that way.'; You said you talked about it and it sounds like he blew off your feelings. That's a shame. Good luck. I hope once the baby is here he turns around.

Top 10 reasons why men cheat?

I just ran across this link, and I wanted to see if any of you agree.. I DON'T but thats just me. I think there is always a cop out for men that cheat, as if it is our fault they do it. Well I think some one should write a similar list on a womans behalf.





Any way, here it goes:





Here Are the Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat:





1. Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.





2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men no longer feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There is nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.





3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.





4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.





5. They have fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.





6. Your sex life stinks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from becoming boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.





7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old-fashioned sex?





8. It’s new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.





9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.





10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them.


Top 10 reasons why men cheat?
This list sounds like a bunch of reasons guys ';okay'; the process of cheating. I do not agree with any of their points, it puts all the fault on women and none on the men!





On a side note, I could put up a similar list of 1239283492394234234 reasons why women cheat :)Top 10 reasons why men cheat?
Top 10 reasons why men cheat








hang on why do women cheat as well???








if the man is cheating then some elses partner is also cheating
All those reasons apply.





The only part I do not agree with is why only 10 top reasons?





At the end, any reason is a TOP when guys cheat.






Sounds to me like the top 10 reasons that a man has indicated are THEIR reasons to cheat. So just maybe these are considered to be THEIR top 10.
11. Your wife lets you and gives you permission. Because she wants for her husband to be the happiest man on the planet.
I think men want to be appreciated as much as women. Have someone to talk to as well.
I think they do it because their horny--and dogs! Bow Wow! ...lol!





Guess I can laugh about it because I've lived it!
What better the old pzzy? New pzzy! that why men cheat
I agree with the reasons, these are real sources of infidelity. I disagree with the idea its the woman's fault. The pure act of cheating is his fault. For my cheating husband it was #2 and #6. I can fix #6 but he needs help with #2.
Sounds like these 10 reasons were written by a woman, a woman full of hatred for men.





On the other hand, a man full of hatred for women, could support those 10 reasons as well.


Women cheat as well.





Reality is this : On a relationship that goes bad, BOTH partners have an equal blame for that.


So... the one that cheats is the one that has the opportunity to do so and create a temporary escape from their problems.


Simple as that.





Everything else is pure rubbish IMHO.






I have never had an affair but I know a lot of people that had affairs. I think that number two is true for most people that have affairs - men or women. I know someone that actually said they loved ';the chase.'; After the chase is over they are ready to be with someone new.





I also know people had affairs because they wanted to be with someone new, exciting and younger.





Most people I know who have cheated are very insecure and looking for their identity in another person. Their self esteem is usually rock bottom. An affair might give an ego boost but it seems to be temporary. The same issues that broke up old relationships usually go into new relationships.

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