How do get the fear of sombody cheating on you to go away?

i think my girls cheaten on me couse i dont go to school anymore and with me keep on thinking that its ruining are relationshipHow do get the fear of sombody cheating on you to go away?
you can't trust her, dump her and move on... :DHow do get the fear of sombody cheating on you to go away?
quit cheating on them. usually the guilty party is the one that points fingers at the other one. If he or she is not accusing you of cheating then you probably have nothing to worry about.
The only reason you would never get it out of your head if someone was cheating on you is if you knew for a fact that she had cheated on you. Or the other reason would be if you have got hurt in the past by other people doing the same thing. Personally i have been screwed over way too many times to ever trust any man ever again, The fear is always in the back of your mind. But thats life i guess. I have a great man who has never given me any reason to think that he has,,,,but it still doesnt matter to me ,,like i said it will always be a fear in my mind. So either confront your girl about it or get proof,,,if not then just try and have a good relationship while it lasts.
Huh?
This fear means you're not ready for a relationship.
You should always go with your instincts... Its not a good sign that you have these feelings and you do not trust your girl. So I suggest you move on to a girl you can trust!! Before things actually end up that way.....
This is your problem. Either you trust her or you don't. By not making up your mind you're killing your relationship.
break up, move on, done...no more fears...


Date another high school dropout loser girl, that way you can sit on the couch all day and never worry.
You should trust before getting into a relationship.Regardless of the Situation.Think of all the reasnons why she is with you...
If you don't trust her it's not a real relationship. But maybe it'll help it you talk to her about it and get it off your chest. Don't leave things the way they are now as long as you're doubting her it'll never work for you two.
I hate to say it, but maybe the best thing is to find someone you can trust better. If you think she's cheating, she may be. There are plenty others out there. Good luck.
you first need to see if there is any reason for your fear of this, such as, is your girlfriend the cheating type or has she ever cheated on anyone before
just because your not around her doset mean that she is cheating on you. you just have to trust her. If you care about her then the trust should just be there unless she has given you a reason not to. If she has cheated on you before and you found out then i can see why you dont trust her and you probably have every reason to be paranoid but if not then just give her the benefit of the doubt. She is probably just as much in love with you as you are her or she wouldnt be with you. have a little faith in her. If you keep on accusing her of doing something she's not you will loose her eventually cause she's going to get tired of it. just really try your hardest to believe in your relationship. try talking to her and tell her that you care about her so much and that you dont want to loose her. But if i were you i'd try to stop the jelous thing good luck
u have to learn to trust her
thats a problem that you need to learn to do on your own... learn to trust a person without that then you will never be happy. Its like asking someone how do you go pee in a toilet? You learned right.... well you need to learn to trust.
Assuming you're acknowledging it to be an unfounded fear on your part...there's no easy way to ';turn it off';. I've gone through it myself, and the main thing that finally got the fear to go away was, of all things, an incident where a guy called for my girlfiend (asking by her first name) stating that they were supposed to go out that night. After many an answer %26amp; question ordeal, her calling the police about someone pulling a prank, and getting the number of the caller off caller ID, it turned out to be a wrong number---with the intended recipient having the same name as my GF quite coincidentally.


It was almost like a lesson taught by karma!
You have to ask yourself if you have reason to believe that she is cheating. Has she cheated in the past? Are you cheating? There's usually a reason why you're feeling insecure. I know for me I've been cheated on in the past. Has anything changed in your relationship that would make you think this?
That says you are not ready for a relationship as serious as the one you are in. Truth be told, if she is cheating it will be tough to prove and if she is not, the wounds may never heal. Best to deal with your issue on your own (keep it where it was conceived). In the end, we ALL must make a blind eye and ignore factless feelings that hurt the ones we are trying to protect. It would be forcing your will onto hers if she chooses another over you and you don't accept it. Try this, if you must know, ask her. Accept her answer. If you discover by ACCIDENT, that she lied to you, concider how fortunate you are to know you avoided a life-long committment to being insecure, selfish and damaged goods.