I've been living with my girlfriend since July with her family due 2 family issues at my home. We've been dating for about a year and 2 weeks. I recently found out she cheated on me with some guy at school. I've already graduated so of course I'm stuck at her house. I mean, I work , she doesn't but that has nothing to do with this story. This wasn't the 1st time she cheated on me but I believed she should get a 2nd chance. Well, one morning my friend Clint called me and he told me he saw my girlfriend and some guy really close together.
I wanted to confront her about it but instead I played it cool. So later on that day I acted like nothing ever happened and I took her out to eat. So I tried holding her hand and was all like ';Hey babe, how was school today?'; but she pulled away insead. I tried kissing her, she pulled away. So I knew something was fishy. Later on that night, she didn't want to talk to me or anyhing so I got Fustrated by the kiddy games she was pulling and I just told her ';Look, I'm not gonna beat around the bush, Did you cheat on me?'; And their was silence on her behalf. I asked again and still was silence. Well, her actions spoke louder then her words. As I layed next to her crying my eyes out, normally she'd comfort me but instead,all she did was stare at me and tell me that crying wasn't going to help and that it wasn't going 2 change anything.
We ended up breaking our relationship and I still miss her and want to be with her 4 some reason. I know any other guy in his right mind would have left but I haven't. Maybe it's cause I believe that their is still love their.I asked why she did it and she said it was becaus she felt ';Smothered'; and ';Trapt'; in the relationship and now that she is out of a relationship she feels more ';Free'; and she also had the nerve to tell me out of nowhere that she may not love me as much as I love her but yet she still tells me she loves me, and says I'm the best kisser. People say that she'll realize what she's doing if I leave her house. I know we're broken up but yet she wants me to ';Wait'; for her. Well, yesterday she grabbed my phone and she overheard a recording of me and my friend talking about my current situation. Well, I thought I had erased it cause I purposely recorded but obviously I didn't. So she just tossed me the phone and went to the other room. Well, I followed her and I was all like ';Baby, Why are you being like the way you are?'; And then she was all like ';Don't call me baby no more, I should have told you to stop in the 1st place!'; So I ended up leaving outside, 5 min.later she follows me outside and was all like ';Want to talk?'; of course I obliged and she just said, '; I know we're not together but yet we still do things like couples do and it's not helping me out for nothing.'; So I just told her let me ask you a question, If you loved me so much like you said you did, What part of your love drove you away to cheat on me?'; She couldn't answer so I repeated it. Then she looked me in my eyes and just said, ';I DON';T love you!'; and walked away.
I know she still cares about me in SOME kind of way at least. I'm still living with her at her house and we still do what every couple does but I know she messes with this other guy as well. Seriously, it's like Torture having to wake up every morning knowing your X is messing with another guy. And even if I decide to get back with her, I still feel like she might be talking to him behind my back, I still love her though! What the hell do I do?!Would YOU take this girl back?
1. Get out of her house.
2. Give her some space, she is crowded by you being in her family home.
3. Once you have done this have a read of your message again %26amp; seriously consider your options with this girl.
4. Don't look back, the pain will eventually stop %26amp; you will find someone who deserves your committment %26amp; loyalty.
5. It is not her.
6. Good luck.Would YOU take this girl back?
I didn't have to get past the second paragraph to know this girl will always be like this with you.
If you are OK with her screwing anyone she likes...go ahead and get back with her.
If not, you need to get your life together and move out of her home. Then you can move on with life.
you are a young man,and your girlfriend is young also.You guys are just beginning life.You really don,t know each other.You,ve beenliving with parents so you have somewhat of a safety net.She realizes that she has the upper hand because her parents aren,t going to kick her out for breaking up with u.Little bro keep working hard and get your own place.Find a higher power and oray for wisdom and courage.Do what,s good if you want to feel good.Consentrate on building your future.When you start worrying go help someone in need.Here,s your answer,no !Once bitten twice shy!Plenty of fish in the sea.Take care of your bussiness and the man upstairs will bless your efforts.
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!!! Move on!!!
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