Would YOU take a girl like this back?

I've been living with my girlfriend since July with her family due 2 family issues at my home. We've been dating for about a year and 2 weeks. I recently found out she cheated on me with some guy at school. I've already graduated so of course I'm stuck at her house. I mean, I work , she doesn't but that has nothing to do with this story. This wasn't the 1st time she cheated on me but I believed she should get a 2nd chance. Well, one morning my friend Clint called me and he told me he saw my girlfriend and some guy really close together.


I wanted to confront her about it but instead I played it cool. So later on that day I acted like nothing ever happened and I took her out to eat. So I tried holding her hand and was all like ';Hey babe, how was school today?'; but she pulled away insead. I tried kissing her, she pulled away. So I knew something was fishy. Later on that night, she didn't want to talk to me or anyhing so I got Fustrated by the kiddy games she was pulling and I just told her ';Look, I'm not gonna beat around the bush, Did you cheat on me?'; And their was silence on her behalf. I asked again and still was silence. Well, her actions spoke louder then her words. As I layed next to her crying my eyes out, normally she'd comfort me but instead,all she did was stare at me and tell me that crying wasn't going to help and that it wasn't going 2 change anything.





We ended up breaking our relationship and I still miss her and want to be with her 4 some reason. I know any other guy in his right mind would have left but I haven't. Maybe it's cause I believe that their is still love their.I asked why she did it and she said it was becaus she felt ';Smothered'; and ';Trapt'; in the relationship and now that she is out of a relationship she feels more ';Free'; and she also had the nerve to tell me out of nowhere that she may not love me as much as I love her but yet she still tells me she loves me, and says I'm the best kisser. People say that she'll realize what she's doing if I leave her house. I know we're broken up but yet she wants me to ';Wait'; for her. Well, yesterday she grabbed my phone and she overheard a recording of me and my friend talking about my current situation. Well, I thought I had erased it cause I purposely recorded but obviously I didn't. So she just tossed me the phone and went to the other room. Well, I followed her and I was all like ';Baby, Why are you being like the way you are?'; And then she was all like ';Don't call me baby no more, I should have told you to stop in the 1st place!'; So I ended up leaving outside, 5 min.later she follows me outside and was all like ';Want to talk?'; of course I obliged and she just said, '; I know we're not together but yet we still do things like couples do and it's not helping me out for nothing.'; So I just told her let me ask you a question, If you loved me so much like you said you did, What part of your love drove you away to cheat on me?'; She couldn't answer so I repeated it. Then she looked me in my eyes and just said, ';I DON';T love you!'; and walked away.





I know she still cares about me in SOME kind of way at least. I'm still living with her at her house and we still do what every couple does but I know she messes with this other guy as well. Seriously, it's like Torture having to wake up every morning knowing your X is messing with another guy. And even if I decide to get back with her, I still feel like she might be talking to him behind my back, I still love her though! What the hell do I do?!Would YOU take a girl like this back?
you move out and get over her, duh. she isn't treating you right.Would YOU take a girl like this back?
if you really love her not much you can do but keep loving her and hope she grows up. But Honestly it doesn't sound like she loves you back. I've slipped up in the past, but I still cared about my bfs feelings and never ever intended to hurt him. A girl that can just watch you cry and not care is a scary thought. Are you sure you really love her, or are you just being self-destructive?
Your question isn't appropriate since she isn't asking you to take her back. The only chance you have is to get out of there. Maybe check back in a year or so. This can't be comfortable for anybody.
Cheating is a big no no for me, especially if he/she has done it already. I wouldn't take her back, it makes you look bad that you tolerate it.
no one should be treated like that not even a guy but I think you should just stick to bein friends. Why be with someone who is seeing other people.
No I would not. She's being an *** by emotionally abusing you, and toying with your mind. If she's cheated on you more then once she does not deserve another chance, once a cheater the temptation will always be there. Leave her, once and for all.
dump her. she a slut. not once but twice. she cheated. are you a glutton for punishment. there loads of girls out there. so what your problem. get dating. good luck.
So why are you still living in her house? Obviously she has a lot of maturing to do and it doesn't seem she's ready for that. All you're doing is catering to her wants and wishes, its time you enforced the break up, pack your stuff up and leave. She'll just continue to use you more and with you still under the same roof, your blinding yourself with wishful thinking. Take a breath of fresh air and open your eyes Sweetie.
its understandable you are sad, but you need more self respect. She doesn't love you, so find soemone who will. Trust me, you migt feel sad, but it WILL get better. Find someone who deserves you! Good luck.