10 points! What should I do? Ex Bf the cheater.Please help. How should I get my things back?

He's stubborn and his father looks at me like he has something to say he is the Assistant Principal of my school and when my ex leaves next year his bro will begin his freshman year and his father still works there. ( I cant get away) He cheated on me a week before my birthday and never apologized.He was kissing the date I was nice enough to let him go with because I trusted him and I couldn't go at the time. He breaks up with me 3 weeks b4 the Homecoming dance ironically the day b4 he ';hooks his friend up'; with his ';date'; twin sister while I'm standing there. They both have the twins sitting on their lap kissing them. He's sitting there with the girl he ';just met three weeks ago'; kissing him, sitting on his lap, dirty dancing (which he claims he doesn't like to do) and feeding him chips while matching his colors with a short dress.Walking past me holding hands while his father is there. He says that he broke up w/me 3 weeks b4 the dance so it's not cheating. But he knew her b4 then because no girl ifs just going to come over to your school dance dressed like that and sit on your lap and kiss you while your father is sitting there. He still doesn't know that I saw him with her twice (he said it was his brother)that but didn't say anything to avoid arguing.


Not to mention the incident where he threw a cap of water in my face to see what I would do because I am soft spoken.He asked me three weeks ago If I'm still mad at him but I ignored him.HE later says to a girl when asked what happened to us ';She couldn't handle that I was around a lot of girls'; He is still involved with this girl, I don't want my friends to get in between what I'm trying to say.


I let him borrow my calculus dvd-rom because he was having problems in the class. He likes to hold things ransom. Which he has done before while we were together saying that he does it to keep me coming back but I think he just forgot. I don't want to talk to him so I wanted to send a text message tonight asking for it back because I will have calculus next year. I deleted his number but I still remember it. I dont want to go over his house b/c I forgot what unit he lives in. Will he respond or will I look like I want him back or like I'm weak and I'm crawling back and he won?10 points! What should I do? Ex Bf the cheater.Please help. How should I get my things back?
no, you'll seem strong, asking for your rom back, because your usually softspoken