Iv been sleeping with my neighbour for nearly a year...!!!?

Its just a sex relationship..


Well he's been seeing a girl since bout xmas time but he says that its just a bit of fun and doesnt mean anything to him tho shes been stopping over for days on end n also stopping over when hes at work,, he says its differcult to drop her home at night because she lives far out ect......


Well i really dont no what to do, iv told him that if hes in a relationship i wont carry on becuase it isnt fare on her...





Why should he get away with cheating on her,,ireally want to say something to her but how can i????


Wiv him being my neighbour aswell... wot can i do???Iv been sleeping with my neighbour for nearly a year...!!!?
If you have feeling for him... make it a relationship... if not... move on.... you need to know whats in your heartIv been sleeping with my neighbour for nearly a year...!!!?
If it's only a sexual relationship, put it on pause while he's with some other chick. That's understandable, you don't need to catch something from him. But don't say anything to his girl, it's truly not your place to. Just tell him you're more than happy to be there for him when he needs you, i.e. when he's not having sex with some other chick and wants to have sex (if you're not already having sex with someone else by then). But if you're not being honest about your feelings and you've actually started to develop feelings for him, you should probably tell him the truth and see what he does. If he runs and hides, so be it. If he also has feelings, he will need to make a decision. If you don't have feelings for him and you just want a good booty call, hell, you can find 'em anywhere!
If you're just sleeping with him casually, you shouldn't be concerned if he sleeps with other women casually.
Stay out of it. It's none of your business. Also, you find someone else to be with. You've taken the idea of ';love thy neighbor'; just a little too far. Why can't you face the fact he's also using you just like he's using the other gal?
Dump him, he is just using you. He probly will just use her to. Tell her about it. I would.
AS FAR AS ';rift3r'; KILL YOURSELF HE IS SO ******* RUDE THAT COMMENT NEEDS TO BE DELETED ANYWAY............





IM GANNA BE HONEST THATS GOOD THAT YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT HER FEELINGS IF IT MEANS THAT MUCH TO YOU TELL HIM STRAIGHT OUT THAT YOU CANT DO IT NO MORE BECAUSE ITS STARTING TO BOTHER YOUR MORALS AND GET OUT. YOU DONT WANT THAT ON YOUR HEAD THEIR IS BETTER OUT THEIR.





PS. I DT BLAME YOU FOR THE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAD BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND THAT WE JUST WANT ONLY SEX SOMETIMES TO LOL
Take it cool and try to speak to your friend about it seriously.....Hope this can solve your problem
Well, if you are only having sex with him, and the other girl is supposedly just a bit of fun, then he is just playing the both of you. He wants sex from both of you without the strings..


If I were you, I would stop having sex with him, tell him it isn' fair that she doesn't know. If you are ok with it all, then tell him he must inform the other girl and (I would check on this to make sure) if she is ok with the both of you sleeping with him then go ahead.


I personally don't think it's a good idea, one of you is going to get more involved in it and start on the other one.
Give him the ultimatum. it's either me or her, not both - he cannot have his cake and eat it or his bread buttered on both sides.
Is the hosue accross the strett from ya for sale?
you dont have to tell anyone nothing...





stop sleeping with him until shes out f the picture!





if that was you.... how would u feel?


hope i helped :)
ill be your next fcuk buddy?!
play until you cant, then stop, ask yourself, is he really that good? ( in bed) if not, just toss, i wont use a 2nd hand p..nis for anything in the world.....
I would just be honest with him and let him know you dont want to hurt his new girlfriend's feelings.
well don't worry





talk to him to get marry with u
Move in to the flat next to mine to spite your neighbour!!!! ha ha
theres an obvious answer here.





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