Psycho inlaws!!!How to deal with them?

Ive been with my bf for 5 years,at first everythingt was great,we lived away from his family the first year we were together.Then we moved near them,that was a huge mistake!!!I had no idea what kind of people they were!I found out his mom is an alcoholic,hangs out in the bar cheated on my bfs dad with his now step dad and cheated on the step dad with some guy from the bar!The step dad drinks heavily also,smokes crack and openly admitted to my bf he slept with a hooker and cheated on the mom,my bf also admitted to me the step dad molested his sister and went to jail but the mom bailed him out and stayed with him!!!All they do is drink and gamble and encourage my bf to do the same even if we are behind on bills.Our electric was about to be shut off but his mom wanted us to go to AC with her for her bday and gamble we didnt go cause we had to use our money for the bills and she got mad at us!!!!His sister and mom are very rude and cold towards me even though I never did a thing wrong to them and treat my bf like gold,I now live back with my parents and he lives with his!!His family hates me cause I wont join in on their drinking and gambling!!! I love my bf soo much but I just dont know what to do anymore,I hate his family they make me sick,I told him if we ever have kids they will not be allowed near them!!!!Psycho inlaws!!!How to deal with them?
Sorry to hear that. Its really hard to be in a relationship with someone when you dont like their family. Very hard. All the best. Try going to a faraway island just you and him. All this drama clouds your judgement on your relationship.Psycho inlaws!!!How to deal with them?
If you love him you can try to save him, but it will be alot easier on your sanity if you find someone who isn't so.... Trash-like.





He's been doomed from the moment he was born to that woman, if he wants to change then he can,. but by the sounds of it he's ok with things the way they are.





leave him, find someone you deserve.
Wake up. Guys will NEVER cut themselves away from their moms. You marry him, and you are marrying into that family. Don't try to kid yourself.
Smile and thank god you did not marry him. I would move on and fine someone elnse.
OMG. Move far far away. Or it's ultimatum time. You or them. We all know the right answer.
it will get worse, dump him,
do not have kids with this guy.........leave this guy alone...it's too much bad news....and it doesn't seem as if he wants a better life....u can do better...and u should :) Nissa
How the hell did they become your in laws? You guys are not married yet.... it may look like for being together for so long BUT YOUR ARE NOT MARRIED YET.





All that matters is you and this dude. Forget about everyone else. If these people outside you relationship is not contributing constructively to your relationship.... pardon my french but ***** EM! I know you love your BF, but he's all grown up. Let him choose his cuckoldodol doo family or be with you.... YOU COULD DO BETTER.
In your place, you and he ought to move back to where you were....and keep that promise, except for sure, don't have any children with this guy... because those people will absolutely ruin your life if you remain in the area.
First of all move further away. Then take in the concept that they are mentally challenged and you always have to look over them. Let your bf know that you aren't happy around them and you refuse to be subject to any of their abuse. If he chooses to be involve with the you need to find something else to do while he visits them so that the crap doesn't rub off on you. Eventually you and him will have to make a choice. Either he distance himself from them or you distance yourself from him. It is your life and you have to stand your ground on how you want to live it.
If you marry someone you marry into their family. He is not cutting them off, and your staying with him would end up in disaster. If you had kids with him it would be unhealthy for them. It would be a life of heartache and frustration. I could not recommend it. Too many problems.