Did my boyfriend actually cheat?

My boyfriend has had previous history of cheating on me but he didnt want to lose me so he completely change and has been great for the past 2 years. Recently I let him go with his friends to Las Vegas, ive got nothing to lose by letting him go there cuz he knows that if he cheated at all i would be gone in a millisecond and his greatest fear is losing me, so i was fairly confident that nothing would happen. A few hours after arriving in Vegas he calls me up to tell me he hurt his foot and says him and all his friends are trying to find some girls for his best friend to get with (his best friend has a girlfriend and baby), everyone knows his best friend cheats on his girl so that seemed normal to me. The next day i called at 9am in the morning and he seemed very private, he answered and he instantly said i love you baby but i have to go and i was like ohh ok thats fine, why do you have to go. . . he just repeated i love you i have to go. . . so i asked again why . . . then he said after a very long pause i dont know (sounded irritated) and then said im tired i have to go, then we hung up. Later that night he called me and said how much he loves me and he confessed how he looked at some girls there and thought if he could get away with cheating would he do it and he told me that in the end any girl would just be a meaningless one night and it wouldnt be worth losing me over if i ever did find out and he was very very loving and telling me how great i am. Do you think he cheated secretly?Did my boyfriend actually cheat?
Yes he did. And he's a very bad liar too.. surprised he didn't buy you jewelry while he was at it.Did my boyfriend actually cheat?
It kind of sounds like he did.. It's just too weird that they were looking for girls (for a friend), but still.. looking for girls the night before, and the conversation the morning after was super short. And then the conversation that night kind of sounds like him admitting it in a way, but yet not saying he did it..


I think he did.. I'm sorry :(
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yes your boyafriend did.
To me he sound like a cheater, he is nt going to change
I wish I could tell you that he didnt, but I'm afraid that it sounds like he did. Reason being? When I was with my ex girlfriend of 2 years, I had cheated on her with this 1 girl who came over and spent the night. I felt so horrible, that when my girlfriend called, I rushed into the other room and told her about how much I loved her and how important she is to me. Then after the girl had left my house the next day, I had time to regroup my thoughts and just cooked up a story on what was up, and she never knew any different. The problem with this whole thing? You cant go leaving a guy over something people on Yahoo Answers say lol we are just telling you from our own experiences what it sounds like. If I were you I'd clue him in on the fact that you know somethings up, but since you have no proof you really cant act on it. I mean leaving someone without any actual proof is going to make you sound like the person in the wrong, and not him. Here is my advice to you. If you want to know for sure if he cheated on you, then in the next month or two, he will get really jealous and defensive. Meaning he'll start to question YOU on if you yourself are cheating. It is a defense mechanism people who cheat get, where they think ';If I cheated on her, then whats stopping her from cheating on me?'; and thats when his mind will work against him. If in the next month he starts to act weird and gets on your case about you talking to other guys or asks about other guys a lot, then you know for sure he cheated. However if he comes back and acts 100% normal, then maybe he was just acting goofy, due to maybe running into another room with a stripper in the main room, and he didnt want you to hear it, but didnt do anything wrong at all (aside from having a naked woman in the room for his friend).