How do i convince my dad a woman is no good for him or the family?

my father has been seeing a woman for about a year and a half now she is always drunk and being violent and mean towards him and my little brother. The last time they got in a fight she came at him with a knife and my little brother who is 8 by the way ended up calling the police.


she went to jail got bailed out by another man and shortly after was back at the house my dad told her she could stay as long as she didn't drink ...which he has told her before and of course 5 days late she started drinking again he told her to leave and now three days after is already seeing her again and neglecting his two sons who haven't seen him in a week because of his erratic work schedule





side note


the whole time she has lived with us she has never worked gotten drunk too many times to count thrown away me and my little brothers stuff while we were away cheated on my dad and driven me and my dad away from each otherr by making everything seem like its his or my fault


ididntt know what to do about thisHow do i convince my dad a woman is no good for him or the family?
Call child welfare and report this. You even have a police record of this. I feel she is a threat to both of you, but especially your brother.How do i convince my dad a woman is no good for him or the family?
You have to stand ground on this one. Tell your father in so many words that these are the issues, and if he does not stop seeing this woman then you can no longer continue your relationship. This is what I did with my family. Stick by your word, although this is very difficult for some people, I assure you, it is for the best.
Have you tired talking to you Dad about this?


Tell him that how you feel and maybe try introducing him to other ladies (good women)


so he can see that she is not the only one out there and there is plenty of woman who are worth loving and having as a mother figure to his children.
strike or move out
It sounds like you are both very young. Child Protective should provide you with a place that is safe to live. You can also get a law guardian to help you.





Your father is an idiot because he is staying with someone who he has no idea of what is really going on. He needs a wake up call badly.





Don't be afraid to call Child Protective. You have rights even though you are a kid. I am so sorry you have to live like this. Somewhere in your town there has to be a place safe for you and your brother without being homeless. If Child Protective won't help you. Call the Police/Sheriff and explain it all. Someone has to help you get out of that situation.