How to cope with being cheated on?

My girlfriend of a year slept with another guy saturday. We are both 18. The relationship had become unhealthy because of the things she did. She would get mad at me and snap at me for the smallest things and when she got mad she would constantly tell me how I'm not good enough and compare me to her ex boyfriend. She told me I wasn't allowed in her room once because she promised him before that she wouldn't let anyone else in their, She once told me his body was nicer than mine, once during sex she freaked out and said when she glanced at me I looked like him for a minute. Their is a bigger list but basically she would say this stuff and said that she only did it because she knew it would get to me. She would say things like if I wanted to be with him then I would be with him but I am with you and I love you. But I obviously gained my insecurities and doubts over time from all this and became very mean towards her and never trusted her around any guys for the reason she would think they looked better than me or something and she was always very flirty but she says that is just her personality. She would tell me I have a big head, or I'm not muscular enough, or that my penis is too small, or I'm only cute on some days and all this stuff. You might wonder how I could end up loving someone like this but somehow I did. I mean she wasn't like that in the beginning and that was what i fell in love with. I just wanted everything to be ok and make her happy. Well anyways something happened friday and I got mad and decided to block her from my phone and facebook. I decided I needed to get away from it all. I ended up going to a party that night and wasnt talking to any girls or doing anything bad, just trying to drink with some friends and relax. She claims a friend told her I was trying to get with girls or whatever but that I dont believe that. Anyways on saturday she went to a party with the guy she would always compare me to and ended up having sex with the guy. She beat around the bush about it and STILL hasnt confessed but her friend broke it to me today. I never knew something could hurt this bad though. For someone I love that much to do that to me. What do I do now? =(How to cope with being cheated on?
Unless you want to grow up to be a cuckold, it's time to leave this woman. She chips at your self-esteem to conquer you. You're 18. Hit the gym. Move on.How to cope with being cheated on?
sleep with her mother. better yet, dump her. she is not worth your time. move on.
Break up with her and join the club of, well, almost everyone that has had a bf/gf cheat on or dump us for someone else when we were in our teens/early 20's. I know it sucks and hurts right now, but really, this happens to most of us. It was a bad relationship for a while...now you are free to find someone that actually appreciates you.
The pain doesn't last always. dump the chick, take some time to chill out, bang a few girls and keep on ticking.
Count your blessings and thank God you are not Married or Divorced. Smooches.
Be a man and stop acting like a little pussy. Any other questions?





Move on.
How to cope? Its called LEAVING HER!!!! No need to cope, you are both young and have a full life ahead of you. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't have any respect for you or your relationship!!!
what do u do??? u get down on ur knees and thank ur lucky stars that u don't have to mess with that dizzy ****** anymore!!
No man should allow himself to be constantly belittled and unfairly compared with a mate's ex-boyfriend. Sooner or later it will erode your self-esteem and possibly cause you to do something you would later regret. You would be wise to gather what's left of your ego and send her back to him or some other guy who is foolish enough to put up with her. You will be glad you took the initiative when you find another mate who appreciates you. You sound like a sensitive guy, don't let her tear your heart out because you'll never be happy with her.
Dude! Reread your post then ask yourself what did I ever see in her? She sounds like a real bi*ch! Your a better man than me because if she were treating me like this I don't care how good the sex is/was she'd have to go down the road!


Here's the bottom line, she's a whore who used you sorry to be so rough but the truth hurts sometimes, she was going to go back to this guy sooner or later but she was most likely screwing him behind your back the whole time; Here's what to do, take some time and get your head together, then go out , have fun, party your a$$ off and enjoy your life, forget about her and move on, chances are she'll end up getting pregnant by some guy(s) and be a welfare mother anyway!


Go to college, get your degree and become a millionaire then laugh your a$$ off when she tries crawling back to you. You need to find someone who will treat you with the same respect that you show them, learn from this and if you meet another one like her then you know what to do; Kick her a$$ out!!!
That's the problem with young love, you can handle the sex, but you can't handle the emotional part of it all. Hey, if the sex was good, then it wasn't a total waste of time now was it?





She's young, you're young, and the best thing I could tell you was to make sure you wear protection when you go banging these young girls. Wouldn't want to get one of them pregnant, now would you? So here she is, 18, and already having slept with at least two guys. Just move on, and find yourself another. I know, easier said than done, but eventually you will get over her.