This is the most messed up situation ever, how could this happen?

Was with this girl for 2 years, it ended when she moved back home an hour away, cheated when drunk and was with that guy for 2 months. She just came back into my life about 2 weeks ago, saying how much she had missed me, this made her realize I was the one, how we had such a special connection, how much she loved me, etc. So she dumps this guy and we get back together. We talked on the phone for hours every night, said she couldnt wait to move back to me, maybe get married soon, etc.





We saw each other last saturday,had a blast, and ended up spending this entire last weekend together and had fun, it went about as good as I could have expected. I drop her off monday afternoon, monday night she calls me up telling me she is having second thoughts.No real clear reason why. Just that she isn't sure,doesn't know what she wants, is paranoid nothing will change. Now, she just dumped me again, saying i'm really not what she wants.She seemed so sure she wanted me, then a switch flipped. WTF?This is the most messed up situation ever, how could this happen?
Dude , she just wanted to 'you know what'...This is the most messed up situation ever, how could this happen?
When she said she was paranoid nothing will change, what was she referring to? She may have things going on that you aren't aware of. Maybe the guy that she just broke up with is abusive or threatening her. The only way to get to the bottom of this is to have a long conversation and communicate with her. Give her some time, be open and try not to be mad or bitter towards her or accusatory. Just talk to her as a friend to see what's going on in her mind. She has some fears and the only way to get rid of those is to talk openly to her
I don't think you really need an answer. No offense but you need a more stable minded girlfriend. Look at her actions and judge instead of listening to her words (they shift too much).
she is playing with you...in other words she's a B****...she might have liked u before but she is totalllly playing with u


i really suggest that u get away frm her....and if she tells u i miss u bla bla bla...ignore her believe me its for your own good:D
stay as far away from her as possible. Don't talk to her on the phone, don't read her emails, don't see her, nothing.





She's mentally and emotionally unstable, and will only continue to hurt you.
I say move on. Apparently she needs to figure out who and what she wants in her life. Eventually, you will find a woman who won't like being away from you at all. She'll want to spend the rest of her life with you...no questions asked.





If this girl calls you in the next few months and wants to hook back up, simply tell her you are no longer interested in dating her but you don't mind being her friend.





It sounds like to me you are getting played. Yea...girl's do it too and it doesn't make it any better.