They say honesty is a great tool for a relationship...but i have come to learn honesty can create hurt!????

so. i have been with my boyfreind for a year now. we had a rough time getting to where we are now, but now that we are on this level things have been great. we live together and so fourth.





I have been home with my family sick with MONO and i get a call from my boyfriend who had just left his frat's mixer with a soroity on campus. He tells me something I already knew... that he had cheated on every girlfriend he ever had except me and his first girlfriend (she broke his heart) and that his honesty plagues him....





he tells me tonight that he could had an opportunity where he was inches away from cheating... and that he walked away because it was wrong and because he loved me...





I mean thats good and all





but now i am going to be going nuts every party he goes to and i am not there?!?! how do i deal with this?They say honesty is a great tool for a relationship...but i have come to learn honesty can create hurt!????
Well, relationships are about trust. If he was honest enough to tell you he was about to cheat, trust that he knows better and will think when he comes across that encounter again. We all take risk in being in relationships. There's always a chance that you'll get hurt but, if you can't learn to trust that every man isn't out to hurt you and be a ';player';, than you will never be able to experience true love. It's always best to right down all the good qualities verses the bad at this point of a relationship. If the good out weighs the bad then keep working to make it last. But, if the bad out-weights the good and you don't have total trust in him, reevaluate your situation and go with your mind, not your heart. Your heart will have you do some things you wished you wouldn't have when you get older... Believe me, I know.