How to get away with cheating on my wife.?

My wife was gone on vacation for a month and a half, and she expected me to live without her for that long! Honestly, I don't even know how I should feel right now! She left me for a month and a half with giving very little notice, what does she expect me to do! anyways, here is where it got ugly...


One of her close friends approached me when she was gone, I was intoxicated and we did the nasty. I am pretty sure she's pregnant, what should i do? I feel bad that I cheated, but how do I fix this. My only options at this point seem to be suicide and homicide. Please help.How to get away with cheating on my wife.?
I'm not sure which is worse,


That you asked this question ...


Or that some people are actually trying to help you get away with it.How to get away with cheating on my wife.?
It sounds like a set up between your wife and her friend. How do you know that she might be pregnant - have you gone to get tests with her? How is your wife acting around you now.





Suicide and homicide are drastic measures. If you feel stuck in the situation move away from the area and get on with your life.





All in all the best thing to do is to be upfront with your wife if you wish to continue your relationship.
Wow, you and her friend betrayed her badly. You need to confess, although you'll probably lose her. And if you do lose her, move on and learn from your mistake. But being honest with her is the only card you got left. Because she will find out, one way or another. As far as leaving you for a month, you said ';what does she expect me to do!'; If it were the other way around, it wouldn't have been ok for her to cheat, right? Don't do something you wouldn't want your girl doing, and don't do anything you couldnt do in front of her. If you stray from that, that's where you get in trouble. Hope you luck out- be honest.
Wow steve you are a loser lol


Tell your wife that you an her friend did it and her friend is no good and that you are no good. You can live without her that long. You just have no self control. You should have bought a xbox or a pc and played games to keep yourself busy lol.





I see it now divorce and alimony in your future.


You wife needs a better man.


You better pray to god asap!
POOR - POOR YOU !!! YEA, RIGHT .YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT LOVE IS .IT MAKES ME SICK WHEN MEN OR WOMEN CHEAT ON THERE SPOUSE AND WANT TO BLAME THEM FOR THE BULLSHIT AND THEN SAY I'M SORRY I NEVER MENT FOR IT TO HAPPEN ,I LOVE YOU YEA, RIGHT. YOU NEED TO TELL HER CAUSE IF YOU DON'T .BEST BELIEVE THA ***** WHO SLEPT WITH YOU IS NOT YOUR WIFE'S FRIEND IF SHE WAS SHE NEVER WOULD HAVE SLEPT WITH YOU AND WOULD NOT BE PREGANT .IF YOU LOVED HER YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE CHEATED . PLEASE IF YOU WERE MAN ENOUGH TO CHEAT ON HER .YOU SHOULD BE MAN ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH THE REACTION AND ACTION SHE TAKES ;BUT SUICIDE .YOU NEED THERAPY OR COUSOLING .SHE SHOULD HEAR IT FROM YOU AND NO ONE ELSE
Just tell her what you did. Tell her what her friend did. Don't think those thoughts! That's just wrong to think those thoughts, you need to tell your wife. Just be happy I'm not telling you what I really think of cheaters. If she is pregnant, you still need to tell your wife, if you love her.
****... You are one ****** up person you know? I would move out the country or something? Wow. Yeah, or just come completely clean, man up and just take it.... Accept the consequences and move on. You can get through it, just know you're not the only person in this world that is facing or has faced this situation before....
o my GOD!!! yeah there will be homicide. She should kill you! I would.... men are such pigs....CORRECTION...YOU ARE A PIG. nothing makes cheating right. all you can do now is be honest. she's gonna find out anyway. so tell her and see how it goes. alot of relationships recover from stuff like this. ITHINK????
If she was gone for a month and a half you had no choice but to look for it elsewhere.





If her friend is pregnant then just tell your wife and hopefully she will forgive you and wont leave you.





Just tell her you love her very much and wont ever cheat again.
You blaming your wife for going on holidya and you cheating? Azzhole. you wanted to cheat and you did, so you must face the consequences. She doesnt deserve you. You and you whore should stay together and look after the bastard kid. You cant be trusted.
u made the bed en so sleep on it ,now u can dance en what the meaning of leaving me alone a month en half hey hey u must be sick in ur head ppl are left for even 6months en stay honest so plz ur a jerk cheater en u need no pity get devorced as u tell ur wife the truth ,,, funny men
You're seriously that much of a jackass that you blame your wife for this, that it's her fault to leave the one who vowed to be with her and to be faithful for a mere month and a half?
for me,She wanted you to miss her.your woman is pregnant?that's horrible...tell your wife now...and show your sincerity of being sorry.for sure she'll get really really mad.wait for her decision and accept the consequences for your actions.
Dude that's no excuse, ever heard of Mast...anyway, since the other girl is carrying your child, I believed it is best to fess up to your wife. It's more painful finding it out on her own then hearing it from her own husband.
Suicide and homicide strike me as awfully messy and involved. Have you considered the option of joining the Witness Protection Program? That sounds a whole lot simpler to me.
Taking a life is not the answer. You're a weak man. No fortitude, regardless if it was a trap or not. Be a man and face the music.
TELL HER !!! that's the ONLY way !!! you should have thought TWICE before you did it !! and if you lied , she's gonna find out anyway , cuz lying Never lasts , it's only a matter of time till she finds out !!!
WOW. Tell your wife. That's the only option. They probably planned it.
Therapy.
Whether you tell her or not she's bound to notice. So the question is do u want 2 tell her or let her friend do the honors. Come clean.
*sigh*
Forget homicide but other than that you sound on track. Dumb ***.
Now you are going to have this thing give you nightmares until you have to see a doctor.
your stuck !


come clean with the wife and try to counsel and reconcile
Dear Steve M,





My parents are gong through a divorce right now. My dad cheated with a friend from work. They had been going out 5 months before my mom found out, and seven before I did. It broke my heart, when I find out.


And now, thinking about my dad halfway across the world, I'm crying.


Think about he she would feel. Don't kill yourself. Get up at fix things. Committing suicide is for people who think they are getting a break by not having to live painful life anymore. But you really should realize that life is a gift.


My mom found out from their text messages between eachother. it's better you tell her, instead of your wife finding out you got a friend pregnant from someone else.


Please be responsible for your actions.


And just think about me, the 12 yr old girl who's had to move 18 hours plane ride accross the world, can't even see my dad except for summer and christmas.


Don't try to GET away with it, try to fix it. apologise.


But realize, she might leave you.





Please do the right thing, for you have already done the wrong.


Good Luck,


Micaela






first off, im not even going to talk down on you because you even know what you did was wrong. but im sure there are others who will jump the gun and say all kinds of nasty ****. And no homoside nor suicide is your answer thats way drastic and over dramatic. Don't hide it. Let her know what happened. Why would you want to hide it from her, though she may not know, when she does find out it will kill her even more that you waited so long. So like I said, Tell her. Not telling her is selfish and inconsiderate to her feelings. Let her know now so that she can decide if she wants to stay with you and work it our or leave.





Not telling her is the most selfish thing anyone could do. because that means you rather hurt her feelings and keep it from her so that you can still be with her. Please dont do that. Let her Know. Let her make her choice. If she loves you enough to make it work then great, but if thats not what she wants, thats fine too, let her be happy single or with someone else if thats her choice. let me know what happens, im curious. And good luck. Be honest and straight forward.