Why do women steal men away?? Why da man dat i love?? How can i stop him cheating on me???

It all started with his trip to china in april, i had been with him for 5 years at then.


I felt things and dreamt about it whn he was away, n when i used to call him then, he used to either hang up in 30 sec or just tell me not to bug him as he was ina meeting..


when he came back, i felt a tremendous change and coldness in his touch.. later i found out from his laptop tht he had been sleeping with an escort (dat's da new word for w'ores) for 12 days!!


Now we call ourselves as friends, and were doing fine lately, but he still dissapears from his contact with me when he's in china...it's been 6 days since he is there. I knw dat chinese escort's number and if i wasnt working, i would just hv gone there, but today i feel doing all these is getting against my dignity...yet i can't keep my mind away, can't focus on work, dont talk much at home...i dont knw, it's killing..


Why does it happen? i had given him everything! Pls dont cm up with an answer ';Move On'; or ';Hv Guts';..HELP ME SIS.Why do women steal men away?? Why da man dat i love?? How can i stop him cheating on me???
Why are you blaming the escort? Your boyfriend chose to cheat on you. It was his choice. You should be blaming him. So, don't call the escort, talk to him.


I hate to tell you this, but you do need to move on. For one, think of your physical health. If he is having unprotected sex, you could contract an STD or HIV. Is he worth your life?


Right now, it does not appear that he has any remorse for what he has done. He also does not seem to want to change this behavior and will continue to hurt you over and over again. I know it is difficult to consider since you have been together for so long, but you need to look at your priorities and his. Do you think you need to be treated like this?Why do women steal men away?? Why da man dat i love?? How can i stop him cheating on me???
Sometimes lust is too powerful to ignore even though the person still loves youo and that's why cheating happens..





But almost 99% of the time, a person cheats because they don't love and respect the person they are with. If he loved you, he wouldn't have done it. There's no two ways about it. He could have kept his desire in check if he really wanted to.





You can't stop him from cheating, and you don't deserve to have someone you give your heart to and get treated like that in return.
Are you all married? If not, think about it - do you want to live this way the rest of your life? He doesn't have any respect for you if he's cheating on you. He's lying to you about this so does he have any integrity?





If you're married - you need marriage counseling.





If you're truly determined to stay with this person, then you're going to have to come to a point where you accept that he is not faithful and all of the feelings that go with that. It's rare that a person changes their colors.
Sadly women can't steal men away from another woman. Men go of their own accord, cause if there was real love and respect cheating on you never would've even been considered. You have to realize that kind of relationship is toxic and it's already starting to effect you, you have to ask yourself is this kind of relationship worth your dying mentally and maybe even physically? Remember a bad man is not worth crying over, a good one is but if he's good he'll never make you cry.
These women are not stealing him! They are providing a service for money, and neither know nor care if he is partnered or not. I don't think its fair to say hes 'cheating' on you either, if he is so determindly going after other women I don't think he considers himself to be in a real relationship, you're just an additional extra in his life.
women steal men away because its them practicing sexual immorality. men letthem do it..cause they're practicing the same thing..just remember when something happpens to you its not your fault always...and your life is too short to continue in sadness..just move on.
down deep past the hurt you know all the answers sis. BUT----it doesn't mean you weren't good to him or good for him.





it happens because life is not fair, the heart and the head don't always agree, because people want different things...


he's moved on and left you behind. it hurts. five years is a long time.





but if you do a couple of things, you'll be fine eventually. i call them the three P's. Pity/Prepare/Present





Pity: throw yourself a pity party and allow yourself to cry, scream, curse the unfairness.





Prepare: pick up your dignity when the party is over, tuck your heart somewhere safe and hidden and focus on you. on things that make you happy.





Present: when you feel strong enough, take another chance.





if it doesn't work out, go back to number one and repeat as often as necessary. life rewards those who are truly alive, who are happy, who are willing to take a chance.





he may never know what he gave up, but you'll be able to use what you learned from being with him to make your life better in the future. and that sis, is why women live longer than men...:)