Any way, here it goes:
Here Are the Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat:
1. Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.
2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men no longer feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There is nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.
3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.
4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.
5. They have fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.
6. Your sex life stinks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from becoming boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old-fashioned sex?
8. It’s new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.
9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.
10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them.
Top 10 reasons why men cheat?
This list sounds like a bunch of reasons guys ';okay'; the process of cheating. I do not agree with any of their points, it puts all the fault on women and none on the men!
On a side note, I could put up a similar list of 1239283492394234234 reasons why women cheat :)Top 10 reasons why men cheat?
Top 10 reasons why men cheat
hang on why do women cheat as well???
if the man is cheating then some elses partner is also cheating
All those reasons apply.
The only part I do not agree with is why only 10 top reasons?
At the end, any reason is a TOP when guys cheat.
Sounds to me like the top 10 reasons that a man has indicated are THEIR reasons to cheat. So just maybe these are considered to be THEIR top 10.
11. Your wife lets you and gives you permission. Because she wants for her husband to be the happiest man on the planet.
I think men want to be appreciated as much as women. Have someone to talk to as well.
I think they do it because their horny--and dogs! Bow Wow! ...lol!
Guess I can laugh about it because I've lived it!
What better the old pzzy? New pzzy! that why men cheat
I agree with the reasons, these are real sources of infidelity. I disagree with the idea its the woman's fault. The pure act of cheating is his fault. For my cheating husband it was #2 and #6. I can fix #6 but he needs help with #2.
Sounds like these 10 reasons were written by a woman, a woman full of hatred for men.
On the other hand, a man full of hatred for women, could support those 10 reasons as well.
Women cheat as well.
Reality is this : On a relationship that goes bad, BOTH partners have an equal blame for that.
So... the one that cheats is the one that has the opportunity to do so and create a temporary escape from their problems.
Simple as that.
Everything else is pure rubbish IMHO.
I have never had an affair but I know a lot of people that had affairs. I think that number two is true for most people that have affairs - men or women. I know someone that actually said they loved ';the chase.'; After the chase is over they are ready to be with someone new.
I also know people had affairs because they wanted to be with someone new, exciting and younger.
Most people I know who have cheated are very insecure and looking for their identity in another person. Their self esteem is usually rock bottom. An affair might give an ego boost but it seems to be temporary. The same issues that broke up old relationships usually go into new relationships.
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